I do not mind if he is poorer or less academically qualified than me, what is most important is whether he is ambitious and knows what he wants.
I don't mind as long as that person is fun to be with and we can have a sensible conversation. If it's regarding marrying him, well if I know him long enough and I accept everything about him then I also don't care if he have low qualifications.
Yup I don't mind that one bit. Most important is my bf is street-smart and knows how to take care of me, which he is doing very well. And just to share, I am a degree holder, while he is O level holder. I'm not ashamed of this fact one bit, and neither does he feel unconfident or has low-esteem issues. He is his own man![]()
Me too. I wont mind it. You love the person because of how he cares for you not because of what his educational background whatsoever.
I think it still depends. i can definitely accept the person who's not that intelligent or brainy, as long as he has wisdom. if a person has such, the whole personality was being carried including his values, attitudes, views in life, humor, his over all. He knows how to handle every situation of his life because there are people who really are intelligent but uneducated, or i mean does not know how to use what they have learned from academics. Intelligent people knows how to care and how to love..They know what is right from wrong in real life. True intelligence is not measured with how you solve mathematical problems or how you speak in public, but it can be gained through experiences, it is an over all impact on how you run your life with worth.
Last edited by mnetit; 24-02-2012 at 10:37 AM.
My insight about this is you cant never say that a guy got lower IQ or ability than us ladies. Individuals got its own imperfections and most specially we are all given our own ability. Your guy might not as good as you are in office, schools, technical knowledge or even common sense but what I am sure of is he has an ability that will be useful in the future situations you will be facing. I still believe that love is enough for you to marry a guy and willingness to be succesful in life and career is better than juat being smart and wise. :D
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