Abortion

[dollisicous]

1 of my friend has 5 abortions and another had 6. Talk about guilt? They have none.
As for another friend, she has unprotected sex with her bf at age 21, got pregnant and decided to give birth to her. BF came back to her 2 haf yrs later, decided to get married, but before that, conceived another. Just then, her bf was convicted of some criminal charges and has to go into prison for 4 yrs. She went through another pregnancy herself.

Although im anti-abortion, but what's really right and what's really wrong?
If you think you can do it, you can, if you think you cant, you cant.
When there are too many opinions, you get lost, trust yourself and make the right decision. ANd rem, for every decision that you make, there are some kind of consequences. You just have to decide which one you can bear...

[xmayszex]

had an abortion once..

i missed my menses for 2 months. didnt bother to check as i tout i my menses was late cos of stress.. until i felt like vomitin every morning.. when to polyclinic for a check and it was positive.. was then referred to kkh for checkup.. by the time its was 14 weeks old (more than 3 months) when for scan, could see the hands and feets. next was to conselling.. (despite how old i think u still need conselling? cos i was 20 that time).

anyw i went ahead for it though i abort it through induced labour. cos it was to big to do the sucking method.. it was a terrible experience..

conclusion is to have safe sex, use protection though its not 100 %.

[risquey]

i have 2 stories to share!

i had a friend who went for abortion twice before, knocked up by the same person twice. talking about bast@rds, he wanted her to have an abortion, wanting nothing to do with it. so of course, naive and hopelessly in love with him, she went. the 2nd time she went for the abortion, the nurses gave her disgusted looks and chided her. so anyway, half a year later, they broke up as she caught her guy cheating on her. not once or twice but numerous times.

another story.

I knew this girl who was seeing 3 guys at the same time and one fine day, she found herself pregnant (cant rmb how many weeks) She told all 3 guys she was pregnant. Took money from ALL 3 GUYS and went for an abortion. Talking about this pisses me off. One would expect that after going for an abortion, you will be at least UPSET RIGHT? NO!!! She was so happy after the abortion, finally relieving herself of the burden. So, she went back seeing all 3 men behind their back as if nothing happened. Happily ever after. ***!

[kyla12]

Hi

I'm sorry guys but I am 100% against abortion and 100% for freedom just my own views and belief but i respect your sides.

I believe freedom is a more important right.
I believe, even when two of my kids were aborted, that this is a decision that the mother will live with the rest of her life.
This is 100% the womans personal responsibly and liberty to make this choice.

People will confess their faith and hearts to God but they don't even trust him to do his own job and they just have to act the part and play God.

[Fairygirl2011]

Hey all. Just wanted to share my story with you guys.

A couple years ago, i was dating this guy, it had only been a couple months with him, and then i fell pregnant. We were young and stupif and i was inexperienced. We did the pull out method and pretty much i got pregnant within the first week of having sex.
My period had always been irregular so i didnt worry about the absence of it. I started noticing i was gaining weight and my boobs were getting bigger, so i decided to go to the gynecologist on campus. I told her i was having unprotected sex and was worried about stds and being pregnant. I did a urine pregnancy test at the medical center and she also performed an exam on me. Since my stomach wasnt that big, and im a small girl, she assured me i wasnt pregnant.

The very next morning, i remember receiving a call at 8am from her that the results came...and i was pregnant. My bf was with me at the time. I was beyond shocked. I was never against abortion so i knew i had to get it.

At night, my bf confessed to me that he had been cheating on me. I was devasated. And all the more determined to get an abortion. He did come with me and i went to family planning since it was cheaper than planned parenthood. I was quoted 300 usd.

I went to the clinic and did an ultrasound and i was informed that i was 13 weeks pregnant. Which meant that i couldnt do the simple abortion. I had to have my cervix enlarged overnight and come back again the second day for the operation.

This was all happening during university finals and it was super stressful!!! In fact i had a final after my cervix was enlarged and i had to skip it because i was in so much pain. The enlarging of the cervix gave me the worst cramp i had in my life!

The next day i returned for the operation. I was under general anasthesia and i essentially fell asleep and woke up in iv tubes, didnt feel a thing.

Luckily i havent had any complications since. It was rather painless, and i basically just couldnt have sex for a while. I believe i did suffer from some form of ptsd in regards to the abortion and he infidelity from my bf.
However, its been about half a decade now, and i do not regret my decision. I have never had any nightmares regarding abortion, nor do i carry any strong guilt. I was with my boyfriend for two years and and am no longer with him anymore.

My main worry is whether or not my future husband should find out about it. My current boyfriend does know about it and has no judgement on me.

So i wish you all the best if you are considering it.

Btw the two day operation was double! So definitely get checked up asap to save money!!